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C'est La Vie

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"That's Life" So it has been a long and difficult 3+ years since the finalization of my divorce. I have been to court more times than I can count, and I have endured more abuse than any person ever should. I have learned a great deal about who I am, who I am becoming, and who I never want to be again. I am so very happy with where my life is going, but it wasn't easy getting where I am today. All too often people think they can just sit back and let good things happen to them, like they are just going to magically drop into their hands. From my experience, that really isn't the way it happens unless of course you have significantly better luck than I do. First off, let me just say that I don't mean ill will against my ex, so we can call him Dick. If it helps you feel nostalgic and somehow connected to me...you can call me Jane. (Names were chosen with careful consideration...btw!) Dick and I met in high school. We dated and got engaged when we were between